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1,000 Men and Me: The Porn Star, the Parents, and the Sex Tape That Shocked Channel 4

Channel 4’s latest documentary, 1,000 Men and Me: The Bonnie Blue Story, doesn’t pull punches. It’s graphic, chaotic, and entirely unflinching in its look at one of the UK’s most infamous adult performers. But what raised the most eyebrows wasn’t what happened on screen — it was who was watching from the front row.

Seated at a press screening in London, Bonnie Blue’s family — her mother, grandmother, and stepfather Nicholas Elliott, the man she calls “dad” — sat stone-faced through scenes showing their daughter in gang bangs, bukake sessions, and a 12-hour stunt where she claims to have slept with over 1,000 men. According to The Telegraph, while some around them chuckled uncomfortably, Elliott didn’t blink. He didn’t look away.

Bonnie, whose real name is Tia Billinger, is 26 years old and runs her career like a machine. She’s said before it’s a “family business,” and she means it — her parents help manage her operations. Her stepfather reportedly carries a phone case with a QR code linking directly to her OnlyFans.

On a podcast with Howie Mandel, Bonnie explained it plainly: “My mom, my dad, my sister — everyone’s involved. But I earn millions, so why would they go to work?”

The money is real. Bonnie claims to make over £1.5 million per month selling content on adult platforms. She was banned from OnlyFans earlier this year after a planned stunt dubbed “Bonnie Blue’s Petting Zoo,” which involved a public sex event with 2,000 men. She’s since shifted to Fansly, where she’s rebuilding fast.

The documentary, directed by Victoria Silver and aired Tuesday night at 10 p.m., follows Bonnie as she coaches younger performers, often encouraging them to adopt schoolgirl personas. It also touches on darker moments — including footage described by her own videographer as resembling a beating.

Bonnie doesn’t shy away from the extremes. “I get death threats every single day,” she said during the post-screening Q&A. “I haven’t left home without bodyguards for six months. But I’m OK with it.”

She entered the sex industry after tiring of her job in recruitment. “It’s just sales, really,” she said. “The first webcam call, I was nervous. But I was good at it. I knew how to ask questions, how to keep people talking.”

Critics argue the documentary crosses a line. The Telegraph called it exploitative, saying “we’re over the edge here.” Channel 4 insists the aim was to examine the rise of adult content creators and the culture forming around them.

Bonnie, for her part, is unapologetic. “Yeah, it can be difficult,” she said. “But I’d do it all again to be where I am now.”

And her father? He still hasn’t said a word. But he watched. All of it.

Last modified: August 1, 2025

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