Vanderpump Rules alum Scheana Shay isn’t keeping secrets — at least not all of them. While promoting her new memoir My Good Side on the Not Skinny But Not Fat podcast this week, the reality star dished on her past string of celebrity hookups and named the best in the bunch: Shemar Moore.
The 40-year-old didn’t flinch when host Amanda Hirsch asked who topped the list. “Shemar,” Shay replied plainly.
The memoir drops a laundry list of familiar names: John Mayer, Jesse Metcalfe, Jesse McCartney, JC Chasez, Eddie Cibrian. But it’s the names she didn’t confirm that are getting the most attention — specifically “two actors from The Notebook.”
When Hirsch mentioned Ryan Gosling by name, Shay played coy: “Not confirming or denying.” For those keeping score, the 2004 film also featured James Marsden and Kevin Connolly. Reps for all three, plus Moore, have not commented.
“Maybe there’s another book one day,” Shay said.
In My Good Side, she writes that dating high-profile men eventually lost its appeal. “It wasn’t working out,” she said, adding that she began seeking “someone grounded,” out of the public eye. That shift eventually led to her relationship with now-husband Brock Davies.
Shay and Davies married in Mexico in 2022, but the union came with baggage. The Good as Gold singer revealed in the memoir that Davies had cheated during her pregnancy — a fact he didn’t admit to until after their wedding. The admission wasn’t public until now.
On the podcast, Shay denied claims that the revelation was timed to boost book sales, calling the idea “wild.” “Who in their right mind would do that?” she asked.
Kristen Doute, another Vanderpump alum, had hinted at that theory on a previous episode of the same podcast.
Davies, for his part, broke his silence on Shay’s Scheananigans show last month, referring to his past self as “a coward” and taking full responsibility for the affair.
For Shay, the memoir pulls no punches. From red carpets to regret, from hookups to husband drama, she lays it out — with just enough held back to keep people guessing.
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Last modified: August 6, 2025
